David Tupaj Obituary in Warren at WJSmith Funeral Home

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David Tupaj

3/23/1962 - 2/21/2014

Obituary For David Tupaj

David James Tupaj, beloved son of David and Alice Tupaj, passed away February 21, 2014 at Kent County Hospital, Warwick, RI. In addition to his parents, David is survived by the love of his life, his son, Nicholas of Barrington, RI and his siblings and their spouses, whom he admired greatly, Gregory (Lori), of San Diego, CA and Sandra (Tom) Lozeau of Putnam, CT. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins that loved him dearly. David was the grandson of the late Maurice and Adela Landry and Stanley and Mildred Tupaj. A lifelong resident of Warren, RI, David was born March 23, 1962. Despite a lifelong struggle with Schizophrenia and drug addiction, David had many virtues for which he will be remembered. A deep and abiding faith in God enabled him to possess a love of life and a tender, compassionate spirit. Quick to praise, kind to everyone, and generous in heart, David never judged anyone. He cherished his freedom and was content with his lot in life. The family owes a tremendous debt of gratitude to Riverwood Mental Health Services in Warren and the wonderful caring staff there. David was loved, cared for and nurtured by the entire staff, especially Jack over many years. They accepted David for who he was and brought out the best in him. In addition, the family would like to acknowledge the shelter in which he had recently been staying, Harrington Hall in Cranston, RI. The staff provided a home for David where he felt liked and was comfortable. Finally, the family is grateful for the countless acts of kindness shown to David by the community, from Bristol to Warwick, throughout his life, and the many soup kitchens which kept him well fed. Visiting hours will be held Wednesday, February 26, at Smith Funeral Home, 8 Schoolhouse Road, Warren, RI, from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be held Thursday, February 27, at Smith Funeral Home followed by a mass of Christian burial at St. Jean the Baptiste 324 Main Street, Warren, RI, at 10:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Riverwood Mental Health Services, P.O. Box 226, Warren, RI 02885. To leave online condolences for the family, please visit www.wjsmithfh.com.

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04/27/2021

To the Tupaj family, My most heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Though I didn't know David very well due to our age difference, our families where very close while living as neighbors on Barney St. I remember the many picnics at Colt Park, gliding on the best glider in the town of Warren at your house and playing in your yard. I have fond memories and have sorrow for your loss. Know that David is now comforted in the arms of his past loved ones.
04/27/2021

Alice & David - I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. While he had some difficult times during his life, his love for family was always evident, and your love and support for him, and others who live with serious and persistent mental illness, was unwavering. That is what family is all about. My thoughts are with you and your grandson - take care.
04/27/2021

Dave, Dave, Dave. When I hear your name it always brings a smile to my face. You always had nothing but kind words for me and my family. Hope your enjoying dancing in Heaven! See you soon, Judy
04/27/2021

so Sorry for the loss of David , Tupaj family! I have fond memories of going to the house on barney st as a kid and I can still see David's big smile and hear his voice, always seemed to have positive energy.I love and miss you all.RIP cousin David.
04/27/2021

Dear David, You were ever the curious and loving wonder kid that perhaps never grew up. I cherish the memories of our happy childhood and hold your spirit close to my heart. Your love for others was pure and wonderful and good. God bless you in your new journey, as we all remember you as the eternal sprite. Love, Rick
04/27/2021

Cousin David, Your contagious smile and generous spirit lives on in the hearts of those who love you. So many happy memories of our childhood together bring a smile to my face. So grateful. Much love...
04/27/2021

Dear Alice & David, I am so sorry to hear of your son David's passing. I really did not know him until recently when he came into the animal shelter to bring in a cat that he had named Rosie. He said he could not take care of her any more and he wanted us to find her a new home. While Rosie was at the shelter David came in to visit her every day until we found her that new home. He said that when he was a kid there was always a cat in the house. I was so happy to have known him for the short time that I did.
04/27/2021

Dave,Alice & Family,Tim and I are very sad over the loss of our sweet David. We have loved him all of his life and will continue to love him. He is now in a very good place and is most likely smiling down on all of us. Take care Alice & Dave & family. Nicholas, always keep your Dad in your heart he loved you so very much. As always Alice tell David I love him. (Auntie Terry)
04/27/2021

Dear Alice and David, We were so sad when we heard of David's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. You truly are an inspiration as you accepted David for who he was and the life he chose to live. Greg and I would often see David in Warren, always a smile on his face. I am sure he is smiling down on you now. Our deepest sympathy Love Greg and Dee
04/27/2021

Though I never knew Dave's Name until I saw his notice in the paper. I saw hime many many times over the years on Hope street. He always had somthing nice to say and never seemed to have a bad day. I remember one time I pulled up to a store and was finishing an argument on my cell phone. I get out of my car and slam the door. I look up and there is Dave. He looked at me in his kind way and simply said "conversations move mountains yelling gets you no where" My deepest sympathy to Daves family. I will miss seeing him on Hope street.
04/27/2021

Greg and Family, We were all saddened when we heard of the loss of your brother David. Please accept our condolences to you and your entire family. Take care.
04/27/2021