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Peter J. May
1/25/1962 - 3/12/2018
Obituary For Peter J. May
Barrington Peter James May, 56, of Barrington, died Monday, March 12, 2018, at Rhode Island Hospital.
He was the husband of Jenifer (Mello) May. Peter was born in Boston, a son of the late Paul and Joan (Kennedy) May.
Peter was Executive Vice President of Corporate National Sales and Operations for Incenter, LLC, and worked in the mortgage banking industry for 34 years.
Peter enjoyed spending time with his children, family, friends. He loved boating, gardening, traveling, and time on the beach at Cape Cod. In his spare time, he was mentor to young men in Providence.
Besides his wife, he is survived by his 3 daughters, Jillian, Eliza and Faith May all of Barrington. He is the brother of Paul May Jr. (late Laura), Susan Leaver (Tom), Marcia Kean (Brian), Paula Duggan, Lisa Richards (Paul), Jennifer Canty, Stephanie Giroux (Lorne), and Amy Holmes (Scott). He was the son-in- law of George and Mary Jane Mello, and brother-in-law of Cynthia Mace (Earle), Patricia Fletcher (Patrick), and Julie Mello. Peter is also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, and colleagues.
His funeral will be held Wednesday March 21, 2018 at 8:30am from the SMITH FUNERAL AND MEMORIAL SERVICES, 8 Schoolhouse Road, Warren, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00am in the Cathedral of Saints Peter and Paul, 30 Fenner Street, Providence. Visiting hours are Tuesday from 4-7pm.
In lieu of flowers, gifts in his memory may be sent to the Carmelite Monastery, 25 Watson Avenue, Barrington, RI, 02806.
www.wjsmithfh.com .
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
May the Lord be with you. May his face shine down upon you and give you peace. We are devastated by the news of Peter's passing. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to Peter Jennifer, Jill, Eliza and Faith, as well as the rest of the May family. May you rest in peace Peter.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Please extend my condolences and sympathy to Jennifer and the girls in their bereavement. George Burman
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
To the Family of Peter May: I was so saddened hear of Peter's passing. I was a co-worker of his many years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Rest in external peace Peter.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
So very sorry to hear about Peter. Wonderful guy. We will miss him and his personality at our trade shows... Our condolences.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Such an incredible loss, RIP my friend, we will all miss you!
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
I am so sorry to hear this. Peter was a bundle of energy and I always enjoyed seeing him and working with him.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Our sincere condolences to the entire family. Such a big loss and Peter's big smile will certainly be missed.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Your dad was a true gentleman, and a friend to mortgage bankers throughout New England. I will remember his warmth and smile. Thank you for sharing him with us. You are in my prayers.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Peter was the epitome of a gentleman. He was respected and adored by many. I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Prayers and deepest sympathy to all Peters family ð???ð??»â?¤ï¸?
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
RIP Peter, may you rest in heaven, you will be missed. love from the Taylor's of brookline.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
I am deeply saddened by the news of Peter's passing. Peter and I worked together for many years. He was the epitome of a mentor, leader, and I'm blessed to have called him a friend. He will truly be missed. Prayers for the Jenifer, Jill, Eliza, and Faith. Rest in peace, Peter. God Bless!
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Our deepest condolences to the May family. May you find solace in the wonderful memories shared between you all. We offer our prayers of strength and healing at this difficult time. All of our love, The McMahon family
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Always a smile. Always a kind word. So sad to hear of Peter's passing. My sincere condolences.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
I just learned this morning, I am so shocked and sorry for the loss of this kind, gentle man, where my deepest sympathy extends to his wife and family. I did not know Peter long but had an instant connection to this caring man. He spoke so highly of his family and was looking to slow down and enjoy the latter part of his life, I am so sorry and will miss this man. Best wishes to the family.
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
Peter May will always hold a firm and special place in my heart and my soul. Peter was someone who from the first day I met him- for some reason took me under his wing- and made a special effort to help me succeed, even when I wanted to quit. Peter had a big heart and he was fiercely loyal to those he cared for. I already miss his laugh and will miss his words of advice and encouragement. I know for a fact that Peter was a deeply spiritual person - as he helped me during my Mom's illness and passing- and today I Pray that Peter has found Peace - and that he is with his mother and and his large Irish Clan. He will live on in our memories- of the good times and laughter. We will see you again my friend- This side or the other. Your Friend - Norm Fitzgerald
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04/27/2021
Chris Urick Merrimack Mortgage
May gods light shine from the heavens on the May family and my sincere condolences for your loss. Peter was a class act
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