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Carol Jean Mello

12/27/1957 - 6/20/2016

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Obituary For Carol Jean Mello

Written here for all to read; is the life I once livedâ?¦It has been; without any doubt; a simply wonderful life that I truly kept so dear and private. To this beautiful world I was born to a Dutch Mom; Phyllis Veronica (Van Voast) McLaughlin and an Irish Father; John Francis McLaughlin. My Mom labored throughout the Christmas holidayâ?¦Therefore; my given name would be a forever reminder of the season I was bornâ?¦I was named; Carol Jean. It was with my first screams of life which marked my arrival at the break of dawn on a cold twenty seventh of December 1957; and, it was on a sunny morning while quietly gasping for breath that I silently left this beautiful world. I am the first to admit I had an awesome journey! I love you all. - CJM

Carol J. (McLaughlin) Mello, 58, of Warren, passed away peacefully on Monday June 20, 2016. She was the beloved wife of Russell J. Mello for over 38 years, and loving mother to three sons - Jonathan and his wife Suzette Mello of East Freetown, Ma., Christopher Mello of Barrington, and Nicholas Mello of Warren. Carol was the beloved grandmother of Savannah and Julian Mello.

Carol was a prolific writer of poetry and essays, loved to cook, camp, and go for long motorcycle rides. She was an executive assistant for many years. She also worked early in her life as a Nursing Assistant. Originally from Bristol, she moved to Warren in 1985. She was a parishioner of St. Marys in Bristol and St. Mary of the Bay in Warren. She is survived by three sisters - Janet Fortin and Elizabeth Murgo both of Bristol, and Virginia Rose of Seekonk, MA. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Her funeral service will be held Thursday June 30, 2016 at 7:00pm at Smith Funeral, Memorial and Cremation Services, 8 Schoolhouse Road, Warren, RI.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Calling hours will be Thursday June 30, 2016 from 4-8pm. Burial will be private. A wise man once wrote Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

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  • 04/27/2021

    I am so sorry for your loss. May the family find some comfort from Gods Word where it promises that soon death and pain will be no more and that we will see our loved ones again by means of a resurrection (Revelation 21:4, Acts 24:15). I hope the memories of Carol and these promises bring comfort in the days ahead. My condolences to the family during this difficult time.

  • 04/27/2021

    A Prayer for Carol You waited until you were alone. Death is a private thing. You knew your last act was to a different audience. As it entered you--- oh how you must have danced! curving toward God, elegant and alone. Dear one, what was it like? Tell us! What is death? Birth, you say,your voice swathed in wings. I am born in the endless beginning. I am not. I am. You start turning into us, we who love you. You weep in our sadness, you laugh when we do, you greet each moment fresh, when we do. So may your gift of loving enter our own and be with us that way, forever. ----Elias Amidon

  • 04/27/2021

    Russell so sorry to hear about Carol. She was an amazing lady who will be greatly missed. I'll be sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

  • 04/27/2021

    Carol, My brothers soulmate. So brave and never giving up no matter what the odds. Finally, able to rest and be at peace. Your family and friends will dearly miss you. With love, Paula and Henry

  • 04/27/2021

    Russell &Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our Deepest Sympathy and prayers go out to you all, during this very difficult time! Anne Marie & John Motta

  • 04/27/2021

    Jon - I'm so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Sending love and light to you and your family during this time of such great loss.

  • 04/27/2021

    So very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.

  • 04/27/2021

    Russ, Jon, Nick and Chris, My sincerest condolences. I was saddened to hear about the passing of Carol. My prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Steve

  • 04/27/2021

    There are no words to express the sorrow in my heart. Carol was my friend for 30 yrs. I remember when the boys were little, Carol was all about her boys (you too Russell). Russell, you once told me that you knew no other woman, that Carol was your Best Friend & funny..she told me the same of you..I will miss my friend dearly but I take comfort in knowing that she is breathing easy now, smiling and looking down on her "boys" with great love & pride for the 4 of you were her "everything". Please know that you are all in my thoughts & prayers and that Carol's friendship left an imprint on my heart forever. Love you all..

  • 04/27/2021

    Dear Russ,Jon,Chris, and Nick, With our Mothers being sisters Carol and I spent much time together in our younger years. Then the death of our Moms, so young, took us on different journeys in different directions. When Carol found me several years ago it was at a time of need for both of us. Her words and writings could not have come at a better time for me. She was my Angle, helping me through a dark time as she herself stood so strong. She was so amazing to me. We wrote daily. Sometimes several times a day. Her boys were her world, and through her I feel like I have know you all for ever. May that amazing spirit of Carol's will remain with you always and guide you through this difficult time.

  • 04/27/2021

    Though I know that this is a difficult time for you, my hope is that you will be comforted from God's inspired word the Bible. John 5:28,29 and Revelation 21: 3,4 gives hope of a future resurrection and the complete elimination of death, pain and mourning. Under Jesus' kingdom rule we have this and much more to look forward to. Please accept my deepest condolences.

  • 04/27/2021

    May her wonderful memories live on forever... Giving LOVE and PEACE to her family & friends, and all who knew her.

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