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Kathleen A. DeSousa-Barlow
9/24/1963 - 1/1/2026
Obituary For Kathleen A. DeSousa-Barlow
Kathleen A. “Kathy” (Duggan) DeSousa-Barlow, 62, of Bristol, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 1, 2026, after a courageous battle with cancer, surrounded by her loving family in New Hampshire. She was the devoted wife of Howard Barlow.
Born in Cranston, Rhode Island, she was the daughter of the late William Duggan and Brenda (Howrigan) Gadouas.
Kathy worked for People’s Credit Union in Middletown for 22 years as a Lead Mortgage Processor. She was an avid New England Patriots fan and enjoyed attending games. She volunteered at various charity events, often alongside her grandchildren, encouraging them to give back to the community.
Kathy lived simply and generously, always putting others before herself. Spending time with her grandchildren was her greatest joy. She was known for her warmth, sense of humor, and love of spontaneous car rides and beach-view destinations.
In addition to her husband, she is survived by her daughter Heather and her husband Billy Luppert of Hudson, NH; her grandchildren Daniel “DJ” and Julia; her sisters Brenda Duggan of North Kingstown, RI; Cindy Raposa and her late husband William of Warren, RI; and Colleen Raposa and her husband Steven of Ashland, NH; and her brother Thomas Duggan and his wife Kam of Salem, NH. She was a loving aunt to Steven Jr, Stacy, Keith, Joey, and Zackary. She also has many great nieces and nephews whom she loved to spend time with.
She was predeceased by her son, Jordan F. DeSousa, Jr. and brother William (Billy) Duggan, Jr.
Services are with Smith Funeral & Memorial Services, 8 Schoolhouse Rd., Warren, RI 02885 where relatives and friends are invited to attend visitation on Thursday, January 8, 2026, from 4:00PM-8:00 PM. A Funeral Service will be held on Friday, January 9, 2026, from 9-10AM with a prayer service to immediately follow at 10:00AM. Burial will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, 550 Wampanoag Trail, Riverside, RI 02915.
For directions or tributes, please visit: www.wjsmithfh.com.
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01/07/2026
Anita Davis
DeSouza, I am going to miss you so much. You were truly my partner in crime at work, and words cannot express how deeply you will be missed. I will always cherish the good times and memories we shared over the last 22 years. Love you always. Anita
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01/07/2026
Russell McCann
We had such fun while at KVH working together. A good soul and a heart of gold ! The world will miss your warm smile and good nature.
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01/05/2026
Liz Campo
It has been a long time, but I will always fondly remember how kind and gracious your family was to me. God bless and rest in peace.
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01/05/2026
Holly Silvia
Kathy was my world. I love her so much. I'm so devastated 😢 Please know I will try my hardest to be there as I am still in the hospital You will always be in my heart.
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01/04/2026
Cindy Adams
My condolences to your family. I was honored to get to know Kathleen for the short time I took care of her along with her sister Cindy. Kathleen was a beautiful person and I'm so lucky to have met her during her care at NPH. Rest in peace and may God comfort you days ahead.🙏♥️🙏
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01/04/2026
Sylvia Barlow
I can't say too many times what a wonderful person Kat was. She will be missed dearly and never forgotten. I love you. ❤️ Ma Barlow.
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01/04/2026
Robert Melfi
Kathy will be terribly missed. You will never find another person quite like her. My heart and sympathies go out to her family, friends, and colleagues.
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01/04/2026
Colleen Ray
We are very sorry for your loss ; our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Colleen Ray & Family ( Warwick)
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01/04/2026
Brenda Duggan
Kat you are my hero and I will never forget you and love you forever rest in peace my dear sister 🩷🩷🩷
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01/04/2026
Colleen Raposa
Words can never explian how much you ment to me. You were not only my big sister but my best friend. You were always there for me whenever I needed you. We had so many good memories growing up and raising our children together. I will miss you every day. Rest in peace my beautiful Sister. Save me a seat for when we are together again. I love you so much.
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